Come on, honey, let’s make a movie
Not so long ago, sexual videos were an excuse for blackmail and manipulation, but times have changed, and suddenly everyone wants to show the world their success in the kamasutra. Instagrams of high society lionesses now look more like Playboy or Hustler magazines. The husbands of these ladies get into trouble because someone posted a video of two girls in a sauna – and it is no longer a shock to anyone. A frivolous flash mob: “take selfies “after sex” and put them on the net” is being taken up even by celebrities who are wise beyond their years and gray hair. Famous Yugoslav rock musician, friend and colleague of Goran Bregovic Zeljko Bebek in his incomplete 70 posted on his Facebook page selfies after sex with his wife of thirty years – congratulating her on the anniversary of marriage. Why not? Wanting each other after 12 years together, and even with a thirty-year age difference, is a reason for pride and an example to follow.
Public people now often lose computers and phones with home pornography. The video of Kim Kardashian having sex with her boyfriend, by the way, turned out to be very educational: she performs such things that can be useful for everyone. Kim still claims that she had nothing to do with the publication of these shots, but if she had a fantastic opportunity to go back in time and erase the dirt, she would hardly go for it. Kim herself admitted in an interview with Oprah Winfrey that the scandalous recording literally made her career: thanks to the episodes of oral sex, viewers remembered her well.
A similar story with Paris Hilton – her fame today would be much more modest (and would it be at all?), if not for one explicit video that informed the world: the actress and rich heiress is aroused by naked men in hats. Natasha Koroleva at one time also acted in the role of an actress of “stolen star porn posted on the Internet”. In the network suddenly surfaced short videos (directed by her husband Sergei Glushko, aka Tarzan), dedicated to the singer’s home games with a vibrator. The story is the same: filmed ostensibly for themselves, but insidious hackers broke into the computer, and intimate footage became public. Good, by the way, the video turned out, convincing. Not unlike mannered porn actresses, Koroleva did not wiggle and giggle at the camera, but honestly masturbated and enjoyed the process. The video garnered half a million views in three days and was liked by everyone except members of the Russian State Duma.
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Margo Ipatova, a sexologist and systematizer, explains the secret of the popularity of home porn stars by the presence of backstory and emotion, something that is missing from the storyless porn videos on websites.
– We know who the stars are in love with, who they are married to, how many children they have, so this kind of home video is a kind of porn version of the TV series Friends,” Margo Ipatova reflects. – In addition, they do it for real, not in the workplace, for money, so everything turns out not blatantly vulgar. And then the star shots are not perfect either: dim lighting, shaky cameras, awkward movements – the action takes place without takes, in real time. All these inaccuracies are reminiscent of our own attempts at home erotica. And we get closer to the stars, and they get closer to us.
Finnish celebrities certainly wouldn’t pretend as if their homemade porn was accidentally uploaded to YouTube. They have a new fashion or flash mob in Finland now – to post their amateur pornographic pictures on special portals, such as Alastonsuomi. This is the main condition for getting on the portal, says the local edition of Helsingin Sanomat: if you want to look at other people’s photos and chat with them, upload your explicit bow.
Amateur filming attracts with its realism – the focus is on people with ordinary, not model-like appearance, some with baldness, some overweight – and this adds liveliness and honesty to the shots, which are so valuable in porn art. Among the users you can find a neighbor or classmate, and with mutual interest to meet him in real life. The fascination with intimate shoots breeds new services: wedding agencies offer newlyweds to celebrate the occasion with an erotic photo shoot. As a gift to the bride, the groom can order a calendar with himself naked in twelve poses, and the bride can give the groom her own porn site.
It’s liberating and energizing
Margo Ipatova understands and supports the interest in home porn.
– Sex on the screen is very different from what happens in reality,” she says. – In classic porn films, everything is thought out and mounted in advance, the right light is set, the understudy’s legs are spread at the right angle, the understudy’s ass bounces to the right height, everyone breathes and moans so perfectly that you can listen to it at the opera. But it’s so boring! That’s why “home movies” with seemingly real characters have become popular in the last ten years. Sure, it’s also a gimmick, but at least it looks like the truth. Everyone is sick of the belly retraction – after all, it’s animal passion, not a beauty contest. I very much support the idea of making our own erotic movie. I believe that every couple should have a video with such a recording for internal use. People like to watch themselves, it liberates, turns on and enlivens the sexual life of the couple.
Dating site benaughty.com agrees with the expert. Recently, its editors asked their audience what excites them the most. The survey participants shouted with glee that it is, of course, porn shot with their own hands. So, who has not yet diversified his sex life frank shooting, hang the camera above the bed – and go ahead. However, successful shooting requires preparation. First, in advance, equip the “set” with everything that may be useful in the process (shots in which the partner digs in the nightstand in search of a condom – so bad in the sense of eroticism). Secondly, use bedside lamps with a power of no more than 40 watts, do not turn on the overhead light (otherwise all your folds and crevices on the HD-video will be like in the palm of your hand). Yes, and it would be good if before shooting the actor praised the actress, in detail, how beautiful she looks. A relaxed state is an important condition for a successful shoot, otherwise you can forget about the sequel. Digital technology has now significantly expanded our erotic horizons. We can take photos of our body parts or the whole figure on a smartphone and send them to our interlocutor in exchange for their erotic shots. There are separate video chat services on the net, where any user with a webcam can broadcast his video to the network. Usually, such sites show online masturbation, less often partner sex: usually only genitals are in focus. The arousing motive is the realization that your actions are now being watched by dozens of strangers and, perhaps, synchronously give themselves pleasure. The observers can comment on what is happening in the chat room, ask the protagonist to show some part of the body or get into a certain pose.
It’s said that the most desirable things are hidden. If you see a thousand naked bodies, your interest in sex will cool down. But secrecy and mystery also have negative downsides – instant ejaculation at the sight of female genitalia or panic attack at the request to engage in oral sex. Sex is not so much a mystery as it is a pleasure, which you need to know how to receive, deliver and stretch over time.
